The four letter word L-I-F-E....

Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people you call or how many of them you have dated, or dating or haven't dated at all. It's not about whom you've kissed, which sport you play, which girl or guy likes you. It's not about which task you've pending, whom you've got to meet next, whom you've you've chatted, how many statuses you've uploaded or never did. Its not about which brand do you use, which shoes you wear, which color hair you have or which skin color you show, or how many clothes you have. It's not about which college or school has accepted you either. Life isn't about how big your friend circle is or how many friends appreciate you or even ever did. Life isn't about figuring other's life and their problems and their short comings. Life isn't just about that!

But in fact, life is about whom you love and whom you hurt. It's all about how you feel about yourself, about how much you realize as to how special you are. It's about love, faith, compassion and happiness. It's about sticking up with your friends and replacing your hatred with love, no matter how tough it gets to be. Life is about overcoming ignorance, avoiding jealousy and building confidence. It's about what you say and how much you mean them. It's about seeing the people as to what they are and not what they have or even how much for that matter. And most of all, it's about touching the lives of other people around you in a manner that must have never been achieved otherwise. It's about loving others for their one good, no matter how many bad must be there in them. Life is about putting a smile even during the darkest hours of the life. Cm'on, after all the sun rises only after the darkest hours of the night. Right?

~Fareeha Arshad

When I found the key to success, somebody did manage to change the locks!

Marry the right person. I tell you, this one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.

Work at something that you enjoy and that's worthy of your time and talent. Most of us from middle class family. And I agree to most of us, having material landmarks is a big achievement. Yeah, its not bad to dream and work on getting them either. But frankly speaking, it shouldn't become the purpose of life altogether. If that was the case, Mukesh Ambani Sir would never turn up for his work. Imran Khan would stay at home and not dance any more. Steve Jobs wouldn't work hard just to make a better iPhone, as he would have Pixar for billions of dollars. Think guys, why do they do it? What makes them come for work everyday? They do so only because it makes them happy. Just getting better from current levels feels great. They don't do it only for money. Cm'on you can't imagine Salman Khan taking the place of Sachin Tendulkar or for that matter Karan Kundra taking the place of Bill Gates. People are born with their talent and they feel great about just doing that! You can feel safe and special only in your skin, I guarantee you about that!

Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. You really gotta agree to one fact, no matter how cheerful the person in front of you may seem, its not always that case. More often than quite not, that person is into deeper pain than you can even imagine. Never underestimate anyone's current situations and problems. No one under the sun is tension free. Everyone has their pains to life to deal with. They have life full of chaos to overcome but still they do manage to put a smile on the face. That one is a real winner.

Become the most positive and enthusiast person you ever came across. It helps, trust me it does! I know it's not easy when you have millions of problems in every field of your life, but as it is the world has enough pessimists. Sharing a positive thought with the people around does affect your life too. It makes you too feel happier and more cheerful. I agree, there are times when the people around turn the things around that you feel the one at fault, you start blaming yourself for everything and current situations, feel guilty and start apologizing for stuffs that you must have never done..Relax!! Breathe in and breathe out. Think. Some people can't just bare how awesome you are. Stop being a pessimist. People come and people. Their job is to say and your job is to listen. Let it go. Chuck 'em. Be happy and try spreading happiness.

If life gives 10 reasons for you to cry. Give life 100s of reasons to smile. Did you ever think you have at least of square meals per day while there are billions of babies and children dying out of hunger? Did you ever think while you are starving yourself to loose weight, there are people who are dying out of starvation not because they want to loose weight but because they have no access to any meal for weeks! A mother has to think and over think to breast feed which child while the other just....closes the eyes forever.

Think! At the very moment, there is a child going to bed hungry. A woman is being tortured and raped. Someone is on the death bed and regretting some of the deeds of his/her lifetime. People are having their houses bombed. Kids crying, running after the dead bodies of their parents....Unimaginable! 

Guys, learn to thank your present situations. Learn to thank God for everything that He has given you, many of which you can't deny.

And lastly I would like to say, be bold and courageous. Take your chance. Go behind every possible opportunity as the only one. Because when you will look behind on your life, there will be more things that you would regret as of not doing than those which you already did. What is done is done! It's a past. Remember, no amount of guilt can change the past, and no amount of worry can ever change the future. 

Learn to live again. Love again. And be yourself again. Things happen. I agree, there are ups and downs, Cm'on that is how it's supposed to be! Life is like a heart beat. If there are no ups and downs, what is the point? The person just passes away. Try to understand, that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but rather on the relationships with the people whom you love and respect. Learn to forgive people around you and most importantly, learn to forgive your own self.

I would like to conclude my article with a short story. Once I noticed a street dog outside my house being teased away by the neighborhood kids as he hunted for scraps of food. Nobody loved him. It would literally make no difference if he did not exist. Yet the dog wasn't trotting of to the grocery shop or something. He was only trying to figure out his strategy for his next meal. And when he was full, he merely curled up in a corner with one eye open, not giving a damn to the world. That is the natures way of protecting the animals. Their way of surviving and living and most of all being happy.

 If the street dogs don't give up, then there seems no reason why we, the smart species should? Make sense right?


~Fareeha Arshad

Happy Mother's Day.....Each Day is a Mother's day! :)

A CHILD'S ANGEL

Once upon a time there was a child ready to be born. So one day he asked God:

"They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"

"Among the many angels, I chose one for you. She will be waiting for you and will take care of you."

"But tell me, here in Heaven, I don't do anything else but sing and smile, that's enough for me to be happy."

"Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you every day. And you will feel your angel's love and be happy."

"And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me, if I don't know the language that men talk?"

"Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."

"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"

"Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."

"I've heard that on earth there are bad men. Who will protect me?"

"Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."

"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

"Your angel will always talk to you about me and will teach you the way for you to come back to me, even though I will always be next to you."

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from earth could already be heard, and the child in a hurry asked softly:

"Oh God, if I am about to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."

"Your angel's name is of no importance, you will call your angel,
"Mommy."

Ya do explain me when u say, "I want a relationship with you"....

What is a relationship? 
Wait, is the word "relationship" even in the dictionary anymore? Are relationships even a thing anymore? Does anyone even care anymore to get to know someone? 
It actually makes me so sad that we as a society have forgotten what relationships actually stood for in the past. Now a days, we go to clubs, get drunk, hook up with people we have never met in our life. Funny thing is, no one sees anything wrong with that because the media has brainwashed us to believe that "sex" is a great thing. Every movie you watch, hollywood or bollywood, women are displayed as objects. This happens even more in the music industry. Every bollywood song consists of displaying women as a piece of meat that dances for your pleasure. All these singers, such as Lil wayne, Chris brown, Drake, they all have half naked women in all their music videos but WE don't see anything wrong with it because we are brainwashed to believe that this is how our society actually works. All these little factors have a huge impact on the relationship aspect that I am going to talk about. Lets look at some facts, as years are passing by, the divorce rates in almost all countries are just increasing extremely high because relationships are starting to lose their value. 
Remember back in the days how a guy would actually take a girl out for a date? That is a how a real gentleman would do something but that is so rare now a days. The main reason of this is also through social media such as facebook and twitter. It is so easy to get in touch with people through these social networks and so easy to lie to someone just to hook up with them. Whenever someone is in a relationship, we still feel that the attention we get from facebook or twitter is more important than the attention we get from our significant other. Facebook and Twitter are like two fake crowds of people that make us believe that we can easily find someone else for a relationship. Instead of trying to fix our problems with our partner, we just break the relationship and move on. 
The only reason why most of our parents are still together is because they lived through a non-brainwashing generation. They knew that whenever a problem occurred, they would talk to each other and not just call off the relationship.

 At the rate of how bad our society is becoming regarding relationships, I doubt marriages will even exist in the future.

Infact, why even date without the intentions of marriage? I know we all r young n etc. But all people do is date and just eventually break up. Guys! Get a life!...

If people can use "LOL" without even laughing, surely they can use "I love you" without even loving so don't be fooled...

That Indeed Is Life ;)

Never Share Ur Secrets with Anyone.
This can be Self-Destructive,
Perhaps the most Important Advice in Life.

 Never Tell Ur Problems to Anyone.
20% will not Care
&
80% will be Glad that U have Them.

Life is similar to Boxing Game.
Defeat is not Declared when U Fall Down.
It is Declared when U Refuse to Get Up.

Always WRONG PERSONS Teach the
RIGHT LESSONS in Life.
That is called LIFE EXPERIENCE.

Faith is taking the 1st Step,
even when U haven't see the whole Staircase.

 Keep Ur Face to the Sun,
& U will not see the Shadow.

Everything is Valuable only at 2 Times:
1: Before Getting It.
&
2: After Losing It.

 2 Things brings Happiness & Success
in Life:
1: The way U Manage
when U have Nothing.
&
2: The way U Behave
when U have Everything.

 2 Places are most Valuable in the World:
1: The NICEST Place is to be in
Someone's Thoughts.
&
2: The SAFEST Place is to be in
Someone's Prayers.

 'FEAR' has 2 Meanings:
1: Forget Everything & Run.
&
2: Face Everything & Rejoice.
Choice is Ours.

ATTITUDE at its Best:
"My BACK is not a VOICE MAIL.
Kindly Say whatever U have by FACING ME".

What is SUCCESS ?
SUCCESS is, when Ur Photo's are Uploaded on 'GOOGLE' instead of FACEBOOK.

 'EGO' is the only Requirement
to Destroy any Relationship.
Be a Bigger Person,
Skip the 'E' & let it 'GO'.

 Do U know why God did not give Us
the Gift to Read Other's Mind ?
So that, We could have the Chances to
'TRUST' & Privilege to be 'TRUSTED'.

 As long as We do not Forgive People
who have Hurt Us,
They Occupy a 'RENT-FREE-SPACE'
in our Mind.

 Always keep Hoping for Good.
Keep a Green Tree in Ur Heart.
The Singing Birds will Automatically come.

If U Walk the Way guided by Humans,
U will find a Hopeless End.
BUT
If U will Walk the Way guided by GOD,
U will find Endless Hopes & Opportunities.

GOD always likes to know again & again
what U want.
It is not that He Forgets Ur
Dreams & Prayers,
But He Loves to Check Ur Passion
towards Ur Desire.
That is why He wants U to have Ur
'QUIET TIME' which We call as
'PRAYER TIME' with Him everyday.

 I asked GOD: If everything is already Written in Destiny,
then why should I Pray ?
GOD Smiled & said: I have also Written
'CONDITIONS APPLY'.

 Empty Pockets Teach

Millons of Things in Life

BUT

Full Pockets Spoil Us in Million Ways.

TRUST is like a Sticker.
Once it is Removed, it may Stick again,
but not as Strong as it Holds
when U First Applied.

 Always take Care of RELATIONS.
Thats why they say, when U are in Doubt,
'SILENCE' is the Best Policy.

 Never Win People with Arguments.
rather Defeat Them with Ur Smile.
Because People who always Wish to
Argue with U, cannot Bear Ur SILENCE.

 If a Drop of Water falls on a Lake,
its Identity is Lost.
BUT
If a Drop of Water falls on a Lotus Leaf,
it Shines like a Pearl.
Drop is the Same,
but the 'COMPANY' matters.

Our HOPES should be like HAIR & NAILS.
No matter how many times they get Cut,
but they never stop Growing.
That is why they say,
Always Hope for the Best,
however Bad the Situation may be.

 'MEMORIES' are always Special.
Sometimes, We Laugh by
Remembering the days We Cried.
&
Sometimes, We Cry by
Remembering the days We Laughed.
That's LIFE!! ;)

Superb Speech by Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis...

Don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. 
Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions. Don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a prepaid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? …It's OK, 
Bunk few classes, score low in couple of papers, take leave from work, fall in love, fight a little with ur spouse... It's ok... We are people, not programmed devices..! 
"Don't be serious, enjoy Life as it comes"

Men vs Women...

Looking at the feedback of the previous article to write about women too, I thought why not differentiate between the two sexes based on how they react to different situations!

1. MULTI-TASKING-Women - Multiple process-Women's brain's designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook. Men - Single Process-Men's brain's designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. They stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.

2. LANGUAGE-Women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems. Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems. That's why in average a 3 years old girl has three times higher vocabulary than a 3 year old boy.

3. ANALYTICAL SKILLS-Men's brains has a lot of space for handling the analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily. But If a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily, For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper.

4. CAR DRIVING.While driving a car, mans analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fastly. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the object (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly. Where woman take a long time to recognize the object direction/ speed. Mans single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any), then concentrates only on driving.

5. LYING-When men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Women's super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Mens brain does not have this. Women easily lie to men face to face.So guys, do not lie face to face.

6. PROBLEMS SOLVING-If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time. If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. she wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. She does not worry about the problems being solved or not.

7. WHAT THEY WANT-Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc... But Women want relationship, friends, family, etc...

8. UNHAPPINESS-If women are unhappy with their relations, they can not concentrate on their work. If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.

9. SPEECH-Women use indirect language in speech. But Men use direct language.

10. HANDLING EMOTION-Women talk a lot without thinking. Men act a lot without thinking.

Sentences that can change your life......

1. Never compare your weaknesses to other people's strengths.

2. Own your life, or someone will own it for you.

3. We cannot change the cards we are dealt,just how we play the hand.

4. Climb mountains not so the world can see you but so you can see the world.

5. If you accept your limitation, you go beyond them.

6. Comfort is the enemy of achievement.

7. No matter anyone says to you,you don't have to eat dinner with them,
live with them or go to bed with them.

8. If you risk nothing, you risk everything.

9. Don't give others the power to control your emotion. Those are only yours and it is only for you to manipulate.

10. Victory introduces you to the world, but defeat introduces the world to you.

11. If you don't do stupid things while you are young,you will have nothing to smile about when you are old.

12. Don't waste your time with explanation,people only hear what they want to hear.

13. Don't rest after your first victory,because if you fail the second time,more lips will be waiting to say that your first victory was just luck.

14. Everyone thinks of changing the world,but no one thinks of changing themselves.

15. The person that you will spend most time with in your life is yourself, so better try to make yourself as interesting as possible.

Life Is a Gift....

Today before you think of saying an unkind word–
think of someone who can’t speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food–
think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife–
think of someone who is crying out to God for a companion.

Today before you complain about life–
think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before you complain about your children–
think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep–
think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive–
think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job–
think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another–
remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down–
put a smile on your face and thank God you’re alive and still around.

Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, and Fulfill it...

Who and what is a man?

=> A man is the most beautiful part of God's creation who starts compromising at a very tender age.

=> He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.

=> He sacrifices his dreams for just a smile on his parents face.

=> He spends his entire pocket money on buying gifts for the girl he loves just to see her smiling.

=> He sacrifices his full youth for his wife & children by working late at night without any complain.

=> He builds their future by taking loans from banks & repaying them for lifetime.

=> He struggles a lot & still has to bear scolding from his mother, wife & boss.

=> His mother, wife & boss all try to control him.

=> His life finally ends up only by compromising for others' happiness...

Death has to come! :'(

I woke up suddenly one night and saw a strange light in my room.

The problem is that the lights are off, I saw the clock, it was 3.30 in the morning. Okay..so where is all this light coming from?

I turned around and saw something very strange..my body was half way through the wall(??)

I immediately pulled it out and saw down to see if i'm okay...this is strange, I tried to push onto the wall, but MY ARM GOES THROUGH...

I heard a sound, I turned to my brother's bed to see him sleeping. I was really scared of what was happening to me..so I tried to wake him up..but..he doesn't reply! I went to my parent's bedoom..I tried to wake up my mother and father..I just wanted somebody to react to me...but nobody did. I tried to wake my mother up again..she woke up this tme...she got up but she didn't communicate to me! She was saying "In the name of Allah, most Merciful, most Gracious" again and again..

She woke my dad up saying "get up man, I want to check up on the kids". My dad replied in disinterest.."it's not time for this, let me sleep and in shaa Allah tomorrow I'll get to that". But she was insisting so he woke up. I was THERE. I was screaming.."dad", "mum!"..nobody was replying. I held mother's clothes to grab her attention but she didnt recognise my existence. I followed her 'til she got to my bedroom. They got into the room and turned on the lights..it wasn't making any difference to me anyway because there was a strong light there. I then saw the strangest thing in my life..my OWN BODY..on my bed!! I was trembling..how can there be two of me?! how can that person look so much like me? and what is he doing on my bed?! I started hitting/slapping myself to wake up from this nightmare but it was too real to be a nightmare. Dad said "Ya-Allah, see the kids are sleeping, lets go back to bed". but mother wasn't at all confident..she went to the person sleeping in my bed and said "Ershad, wake up!.WAKE UP!" but he wouldn't reply.She tried again and again but no reply. Then I turned to see my dad tearing..today witnesses the first time in my life that I have seen my dad's tears. The place was shaking with screaming..my brother woke up.."Whats going on??!" in a very sad tone! with tears rolling down her check, mother replied "your brother's dead! Ershad is DEAD!" I went to mother and sald "please mum, dont cry..im right here look at me!" but nobody's replying to me..why?!! I turned to Allah and asked Him to wake me up from the nightmare! Quickly following my dua was a voice saying (Quran): "You were in negligance from this, so We uncovered the blinds and today your sight is (like iron)".

Suddenly two creatures held my arm..they werent human! "Leave me alone! who are you and what do you want from me?!"

"We're you're grave guards"

I said, "but Im not dead yet!, let go of me!, I can still see, hear, touch and speak..Im not dead!".

They replied with a smile: "U humans are fascinating! U think that by dying ur life ends, while in fact life on Earth is a small dream compared to the Here After; a dream that ends at your death". They started pulling me towards my grave..on the way I saw people just like me, each had two guards like mine. Some were smiling, others crying, others screaming. I asked the guards "why are they all doing that?" They replied "These people now know their fate , some were in ignorance so they.." "..so they go to HELL??!" I interrupted. They said "yes" and continued.. "and those laughing are going to Heaven.

I quickly replied: "What about me..where will i go??"

They said "U were at times a good muslim, while other times not. One day you obey Allah, the next you disobey Him. And U weren't clear with yourself and ur fate will remain so: lost". I replied, shaking; "SO! AM I GOING TO HELL?!".

They said; "Allah's mercy is so great and the journey is long". I turned to see my family carrying my dead body in a coffin..so I ran to them..I said "make duaa for me" but nobody replied. I went to my brother and warned him.."be careful with what you do in this life..don't be a fool like myself!". I was really hoping that he could hear me..the two angels (guards) tied up my soul on top of my body..I saw my relatives pouring sand over me.. at that moment I was hoping that I would be in their place..that I can turn to Allah and do as much as He wants from me that I would ask for forgiveness..for all repent my sins that angered Him, but unfortunately I couldn't. I shouted "People, don't let this life tempt you! Wake up to the truth, one day you will DIE! and you never know when..or how." I hoped for somebody to hear me but nobody there did. But YOU heard me, so save yourself. Smile to others, forgive them when you've the power to punish them. Allah forgives those that forgive others. Do your prayers regularly with an open heart. Let Allah guide ur life, not Satan. Read the Quran regularly and let the prophet (PBUH) be your role model. Work in this timed life for your salvation in an eternal one. And remember this worst-regular-sinner brother in all Ur precious and answerable prayers. And I point the above to myself just as much as I do to my friends.

Smile...Things can't be that bad ;)

Smiling is a simple task,but has an extraordinary impact.A mom’s smile reassures her child that everything is okay and that the next day would be better,a spouse’s smile makes you strong,a child’s smile can rearrange her father’s mood.

Tell me something..when was the last time you smiled at a stranger?..

Or for that matter when was the last time you smiled without a reason?…..

Only you are responsible for how your day goes…yes, ups and downs are a part of one’s life but honestly, aren’t u so much luckier than that boy on the street with a broken leg?-smile for that!

Smile because you survived another day!..

Smile because you have a home to live in with wonderful parents !

Smile because the sun is shining:P..

Smile because the world is so beautiful!!..

Smile because you are worth the happiness..

Smile for no reason at all!!..you don’t just have to smile when you get a gift.or you are exceptionally happy..

It takes only a moment..but its memory can last forever..

A smiling face looks beautiful!..i have never seen a smiling face that is not beautiful!…it lightens up your face!…shows off your glistening white teeth!....

smiling..such a simple thing to do..with such massive rewards!..go about the day with a smile on your face..smile at the people you like..smile at those you dislike!..smile at a complete stranger..smile even when life is tough and you think there is no way out..smile even if u feel you have hit rock bottom..because if you are at rock bottom,things can only get better 

Maybe your smile can make a stranger’s day!..

Smiles are contagious..you smile at someone,they smile back at you!they are happy!so,they smile at the next person they see and so on!..

Notice how sharing one smile can change your day!you day seems so much more happier.You are less irritable,more loving toward your family.

A SMILE IS THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE SOMEONE!- and the best part,its FrEe!..

So,the next time you frown about something,do think about the wrinkles that one frown would cause you!:O..

Wear a smile and have friends; wear a scowl and have wrinkles. What do we live for if not to make the world less difficult for each other?
-George Eliot
Keep smiling!. :D 

Strange but true... ;)

Today's Reality:
.
.
Big House
Small Family
..
More Degrees
Less Common Sense
..
Advanced Medicine
Poor Health
..
Touched Moon
Neighbors Unknown
..
High Income
Less peace of Mind
..
High IQ
Less Emotions
..
Good Knowledge
Less Wisdom
..
Number of affairs
No true love
..
Lot of friends on Facebook
No best friend
..
More alcohol
Less water
..
Lots of Human
Less Humanity
..
Costly Watches
But No time..

This Pretty Girl Was Seeking A Rich Husband. The Reply She Got From A Banker Was Priceless!!!

The following is what a women posted on a dating forum seeking a rich husband:

I’m going to be honest of what I’m going to say here. I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York.

My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married? I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you?

Among those I’ve dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit.
If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden(?), $250k annual income is not enough.

I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)
2) Which age group should I target?
3) Why most wives of the riches are only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who don’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.
4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)
Ms. Pretty

A philosophical reply from CEO of J.P. Morgan below:

Dear Ms. Pretty,
I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor.
My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here.
From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain.

Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money” : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.
However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year.

Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”.
If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”.

Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps.

signed,
J.P. Morgan CEO

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Five very bitter, but the truths of life....

1: Nobody is real in this world except Mother...

2: A poor person has no friends...

3: People do not like good thoughts they like good looks...

4: People respect the money not the person...

5: The person you love the most, will hurt you the most…

LOVE AND MARRIAGE......

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... This is marriage...

Woman was created from the rib of his man. She wasn't created from his head to top him. Nor from his feet to be stepped upon. She was made from the side to be close to him. From beneath his arm to be protected by him. Near his heart to be loved by him....

Cold Night of King and a Poor Old Man.........

Once Upon A time a king went for hunting to the Woods far from his Palace. It was end of the year and the cold was at its peak. Following the prey as it was a special rare breed Black-Deers, king took lot more time and surpassed the evening. Now as it was quiet dark, King and his troop were rushing back to the palace. Horses were galloping and grunting fog like steam engines. Not only the cold, it also started to rain as-well so the troop and the king had to stop a small nearby tandoor(bread shop).

Soon when the rain got a paused they hurried and finally returned to the palace safe and sound. But the king had his mind stuck back at the tandoor(Bread Shop). There he had seen a poor old man sitting on the floor with torn dress and not even a piece of rug to protect his body from the shattering cold. With every blast of thunder King woke up and got more and more curious about the situation of that poor old man.

Next morning the first thing he did was to send a few horsemen to bring that poor old man. When the old man came King asked "Old man i could not sleep all night thinking about you, i wish to know how did you spend your night ??? "

Old Man replied "My Dear King, if i answer you with truth, you may then would order your men to kill me".

King said "You have my words old man, you will not be harmed in return of your answer".

And then the old man told "Dear King i spent half night just like you and half better than yours"

King was amazed at the answer and said i sleep in most comfy silk and fur beds which is as cozy as a teapot while you on the other hand did not have even a torn piece of blanket so how can you spend the night like me or better than me ?

The old man revealed "My king, As long as the tandoor(stove) was hot at the bread shop, i kept sleeping just like you, After mid night when the stove got cold, i was awakened by the increasing cold and kept on PRAYING to ALL MIGHTY ALLAH. This is how i spent half night better than yours"

{And during the night wake up and pray, as an extra offering of your own, so that your Lord may raise you to a [highly] praised status.} (Quran 17:79)

That's life ;)

Just loved these lines about LIFE.

When I got enough confidence, the stage was gone.

When I was sure of losing, I won.

When I needed people the most, they left me.

When I learnt to dry my tears, I found a shoulder to cry on.

When I mastered the skill of hating, Someone started loving me from the core of one's heart &
While waiting for light for hours when I fell asleep the sun came out..

That's LIFE! No matter what u plan u never know what life has planned for u..
"Success introduces you to the world..Failure introduces the world to you."

A MOTHER'S LOVE......

I think this is the most beautiful thing I have ever read in the English language. The first time I read it, it made me cry so much. That was years ago. Ever since then, I've been searching for it again. I found it again today. This time reading it made me cry even more:


"We are sitting at lunch one day when my daughter casually mentions that she and her husband are thinking of "starting a family." "We're taking a survey," she says half-joking. "Do you think I should have a baby?"

"It will change your life," I say, carefully keeping my tone neutral. "I know," she says, "no more sleeping in on weekends, no more spontaneous vacations."

But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my daughter, trying to decide what to tell her. I want her to know what she will never learn in childbirth classes. I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing will heal, but becoming a mother will leave her with an emotional wound so raw that she will forever be vulnerable.

I consider warning her that she will never again read a newspaper without asking, "What if that had been MY child?" That every plane crash, every house fire will haunt her! That when she sees pictures of starving children, she will wonder if anything could be worse than watching your child die.

I look at her carefully manicured nails and stylish suit and think that no matter how sophisticated she is, becoming a mother will reduce her to the primitive level of a bear protecting her cub. That an urgent call of "Mom!" will cause her to drop a soufflé or her best crystal without a moment's hesitation.

I feel that I should warn her that no matter how many years she has invested in her career, she will be professionally derailed by motherhood. She might arrange for childcare, but one day she will be going into an important business meeting and she will think of her baby's sweet smell. She will have to use every ounce of discipline to keep from running home, just to make sure her baby is all right.

I want my daughter to know that every day decisions will no longer be routine.

That a five year old boy's desire to go to the men's room rather than the women's at McDonald's will become a major dilemma. That right there, in the midst of clattering trays and screaming children, issues of independence and gender identity will be weighed against the prospect that a child molester may be lurking in that restroom. However, decisive she may be at the office, she will second-guess herself constantly as a mother.

Looking at my attractive daughter, I want to assure her that eventually she will shed the pounds of pregnancy, but she will never feel the same about herself. That her life, now so important, will be of less value to her once she has a child. That she would give herself up in a moment to save her offspring, but will also begin to hope for more years, not to accomplish her own dreams, but to watch her child accomplish theirs.

I want her to know that a caesarean scar or shiny stretch marks will become badges of honor. My daughter's relationship with her husband will change, but not in the way she thinks. I wish she could understand how much more you can love a man who is careful to powder the baby or who never hesitates to play with his child. I think she should know that she will fall in love with him again for reasons she would now find very unromantic.

I wish my daughter could sense the bond she will feel with women throughout history who have tried to stop War, prejudice and drunk driving. I want to describe to my Daughter the exhilaration of seeing your child learn to ride a bike. I want to capture for her the belly laugh of a baby who is touching the soft fur of a dog or cat for the first time. I want her to taste the joy that is so real it actually hurts.

My daughter's quizzical look makes me realize that tears have formed in my eyes. "You'll never regret it," I finally say. Then I reached across the table, squeezed my daughter's hand and offered a silent prayer for her, and for me, and for all the mere mortal women who stumble their way into this most wonderful of callings.